Peculiarities of relations
Strictly speaking our life is a variety of interactions we perform from the day of our birth till the day we pass on. At first, those are the interactions with the world that surrounds us, we cognise it as we are the babies, then those are interactions with our parents, then friends, then teachers and so on and so forth. As we are the babies our interactions with our parents are performed by means of child's weep as that is the only way for babies to express their emotions. Soon, they are able to express those by other means. With the laps of time and our growing elder the means of communication and interacting are changed but there are still interactions and those interactions are full of peculiarities.
The peculiarities of our interaction and communication depend on our character and on a character of one we communicate with. As a result of those peculiarities the relationships we have may be of different kinds: friendship, love, conflict relations, rivalry, cooperation and so on and so forth. Those relations we have in our life are the core we develop our life around. The character of a person and relations he or she has in society influence each other.
Say, if one is of hard disposition it will be difficult for him or her to build friendly relations with people. First of all it will be so as the hard disposition and inability of temporising are the greatest obstacles on one's way to create normal social interactions. Such inability, in its turn, will result in a great number of problems one will has. People won't be friendly to one who is not friendly to them. Sometimes, such people believe that they are able to do everything on their own, but soon it becomes clear that absence of normal social interactions turns life into endless struggle with oneself and people around.
Every one of us, no matter how strong he or she is, no matter the strength of his or her character, needs someone to feel safe, to get rest of everyday struggle. So, people should know the basis of building relations in the society, as it is impossible for one to live among people on his or her own without any help and support. As an argument to weight this statement one may recollect in the memory interactions of schoolchildren. Have you ever known someone who was considered as an outsider in your school? I bet you do. How do you think, was that person happy and pleased with life? No, that person wasn't, moreover, that person was pretty frustrated with the situation.
So, to live happily and be pleased with life one needs friends and people he or she can trust, people who will help him or her whatever happens, or simply people to chat with when tired of work or other troubles. In order to build normal relations with people one should mind his or her own character and the character of a person he or she communicates with. One should also mind the kind of relations and chooses the right way of behaviour and communication depending on the character of relations.
